the life and times of the lesser spotted packet jockey

It's interesting, especially to me as an older person, how discussions of sex-gender-sexuality have changed so much since I was young (ie school age). Thing is, nobody imho truly knows, we're each of us a "me" and that me-ness is our truth. Words like male, female, feminine, masculine, etc etc are words which get thrown around as some sort of shorthand handle on what we are, but like political parties that shorthand abbreviates so much that the single words can easily be misleading. I don't understand the nuances of myself, let alone of others, but that's fine. Chacun a son goût.